Understanding The Batterer In Custody and Visitation Disputes 14thdaymom, May 16, 2018 If you are involved in a custody battle with your abuser, ESPECIALLY if Child Protective Services has involved themselves in your life, this article is a must-read. by R. Lundy Bancroft A sophisticated understanding of the mind of the abuser, his style as a parent, and of the tactics that… Continue Reading