Year: 2014

A Bridge (a poem about parental alienation)

Her teardrops sting her face as the wind splashes them from her eyes across her cheeks.

His lips tells lies each time he smiles.

She is the shell of a woman, his mother, inconsolably weeping.

He was her child, interrupted.

Both of them have stood alone on an empty dock for almost two decades


-live severed-

(permanently erased)

They are both brow beaten with thickened tears that eventually have learned not to fall.

(it hurts)

She has become a snake in the wild, that was once tame.

He is an untrained champion fighter, without gloves & his anger is unrestrained.

Her thoughts are stolen instruments that will never be played.

His wants are muted dub-step songs, quieted but so enraged

They both wander through their lives. -wondering-

What if it hadn’t happened that way.

She screams at night.

He dreams of ending life.

She is stalled. motionless, in her sentiment.


He is grown up.

Alienated- full of angst and discontent.

Each day they both live as detached from themselves as they can.

With cynical views of the world, they both see life through misanthropic eyes now.

They do not recognize how paralyzing their pain really is.

Or how paralleled an existence they both live … to each other.

their lives are mirrored …

yet each day is futile at best to them.

The future is merely a continuation of … or rather an extension of …

BEAUTY destroyed

& LOVE carried over

from a place so deep inside

that they both helplessly stand,

alone, on their dock to

painfully remember the pain of not knowing, the uncertainty of the waiting & the illusions of false hope and wishing…

They both have one thought…

if only there were a bridge built for them to cross over

just one time

to reach each other again… What if…?

He does not know how she can still hear him cry and that she cries too.

All she wants is a chance to tell him how sorry she is that she couldn’t protect him –

And she wants him to know he is not motherless.

A Tragic Reminder That Time Is Precious

The story below is a tragic reminder that when you love someone -show them – your time with them is never guaranteed.

We are not in charge.

As parents we are, or try to be, mindful of taking precautions against the risks in this world that may harm our children. Covering electrical outlets, holding hands while crossing the street, installing gates around pools, etc.

However, this case reminds us, that we cannot prevent everything from potentially harming our child.

There are just some things that you don’t think about until too late. I mean, I never worried about sending my kids to school and that they might never vine home after choking on a pushpin of all things.

It just goes to show ya that time is precious.

To the suffering family: Godspeed, and may you find peace somehow! It’s Almost Tuesday.


After a Frisco Child’s Death, Her Family Wants Answers and Changes from Frisco ISD
Tues, May 27, 2014 at 10:22 AM
By Eric Nicholson
Source: Dallas Observer

No one — not her teacher, not her mom, not the school nurse, not the paramedics — could initially explain why Meaghan Levy, an otherwise healthy kindergartener at Frisco’s Corbell Elementary, suddenly collapsed to the floor as her class walked to the library on the morning of December 12. She had no history of medical problems and no known allergies.

The night before was normal — a trip to the grocery store with her mom and siblings, a dinner of turkey tacos, a run-through of Finding Nemo before bed — as was the morning.

She was in good spirits when she was dropped off at school in her white shirt and jean jacket, and she was typically cheerful as her class set out for the library an hour-and-a-half later.

When Fox 4 reported on the death the next week, they could say for certain only that Meaghan “became ill.”.

The actual cause of death was suggested by X-rays doctors at Children’s Medical Center at Legacy as they frantically tried to save Meaghan’s life, and confirmed a month later by the Collin County Medical Examiner: asphyxiation by pushpin.

For Meaghan’s mother, Nicole Kennedy, and her aunt, Erika Kennedy, the past five months have eroded some of the initial shock of losing a child 11 days before her 6th birthday. But they’ve done little to ease their despair.

Though Frisco ISD and Frisco police have closed their respective investigations and ruled the death an accident, the Kennedy sisters have questions:

Why didn’t Meaghan’s teacher have CPR training?

Why did the oxygen bottle pumping air into her lungs while paramedics were en route malfunction, sending the school nurse to the hospital?

Why were pushpins allowed within a kindergartener’s reach in the first place?

In an emailed response to questions posed by Unfair Park, Frisco ISD spokeswoman Shana Wortham said no employees have been disciplined and no policy changes have been made in the wake of Meaghan’s death.

Teachers are still encouraged, but not required, to take CPR training as part of their professional development regimen, and no move has been made to bar pushpins from Frisco ISD kindergarten classes.

“The hearts of the staff and students at the campus and the District continue to go out to the family,” Wortham wrote. “It was a tragic loss for all those who knew and loved her.”

Tragic particularly because it was avoidable. Pushpin deaths seem to be relatively rare, but they’re hardly unheard of.

Within two months of each other in 2011, children in Louisville, Kentucky and Oceanside, California choked to death on pushpins, their plastic bases just the right size to lodge in a young child’s trachea.

Even when they’re fully inhaled, they pose a painful challenge, the sharp point making them a nightmare to remove from the lungs.

Even after Meaghan began choking on the pushpin, there appears to be room for a quicker, more effective response.

According to a Frisco PD incident report, the first indication that something was wrong came when Meaghan approached her teacher in the hallway with her hands to her throat, appearing as if she couldn’t breath.(A video camera in the hallway captured Meaghan choking from afar, but does not show when or how she obtained the pushpin.)

The teacher’s response was to lead the girl to the nurse’s office, but Meaghan collapsed before they reached the door. Two parent volunteers happened to be standing nearby and helped carry Meaghan into the nurse’s office, by which time her face was turning blue. One of the volunteers performed the Heimlich maneuver — unsuccessfully, he told police. The nurse began CPR.

During the course of CPR, the nurse began to use one of the portable medical emergency oxygen units Frisco ISD provides at all its campuses. As she delivered the oxygen, the tank malfunctioned, spraying the nurse with a chemical — a caustic substance similar to soda ash — and sending her to the hospital.

Something similar happened in September when the school nurse at Frisco’s Lone Star High School attempted to administer oxygen to a student. The tank exploded, according to media reports, spraying the nurse, a student, three firefighters, and an assistant principal with the chemical and sending them to the hospital.

Wortham says the oxygen units are designed, manufactured and distributed by Frisco-based Oxysure.

“The portable oxygen is another tool available to our personnel to use in a medical situation until paramedics arrive,” she writes. “The District usually also has AEDs at every facility.”

Wortham did not address why the unit malfunctioned, when it was last inspected, or whether the twin cases of malfunctioning oxygen tanks has prompted the district to enact any changes.

She prefaced her responses with a note that
“the District’s comments are limited since we are unsure of legal action being considered.”

Oxysure said in a statement that its product worked properly in Meaghan’s case and in others.
“The cause of this tragedy appears to the be accidental swallowing of a pushpin and is unrelated to our product,” the company said. “We are unclear as to why we are being brought into it.”
FISD, the statement continues, “has hundreds of our units, and has successfully used the product in hundreds of saves since 2008.”

The media reports last fall were inaccurate.

The Oxysure unit is not a “tank” and is not “compressed.” It’s easy to confuse our product with traditional oxygen units, since that’s closer to the public’s frame of reference.

Our product is break-through, safe, accessible, life-safing technology and we work hard every day to re-frame the mindset around supplemental oxygen. Our job is to re-educate the public around this product since it’s breakthrough technology.

Bottom line is, OxySure units contain inert powders that, when deployed, provide medically safe and pure oxygen. OxySure saves lives.

Frisco ISD would have been responsible for inspecting the units, the company said.

Paramedics arrived soon after the oxygen tank malfunctioned and took Meaghan to the hospital.
After doctors discovered the pushpin, they decided she needed to be airlifted to the Children’s Medical Center of Dallas. Before they could load her on the helicopter, however, her condition worsened.

“After several minutes of intense care,” the police report says, “the lead doctor came into the hallway and notified the family that Meaghan had died.”

It’s not clear from the police report or autopsy that a properly functioning oxygen tank or a teacher trained to provide CPR would have saved Meaghan. But those are big “what ifs” — too big, say the Kennedy sisters.

They hope Meaghan’s death can still prompt changes at Frisco ISD: a ban on pushpins; mandatory CPR training for teachers; a better system to ensure the emergency medical equipment is in proper working order.

As much as anything, they want to raise awareness: Beware of kids and pushpins.

This post has been updated with a response from Oxysure.

© 2014 Dallas Observer, LLC. All rights reserved.

Please – Take the Children Home –

I am going to talk about something very near and dear to my heart; Parental Kidnapping & Family Abductions.

In all my research and life experiences,I have not found many a greater organization that offers any better information on this topic than the National Center for Missing And Exploited Children.

Many subject matters are covered in their publications so last night as I sifted through some resources online, downloaded this one on Family Abductions – of which I copied the information below…


I conclude the post by adding my own thoughts and unfortunate wisdom I’ve gained on the topic through my own life experiences following the excerpt.

First, I must ask a favor. It’s Almost Tuesday was born as a short story I wrote for April, 2006’s Child Abuse Awareness Month… That was 8 years ago, the age my son was (8 yrs old) when he was kidnapped from me.

So in his honor, please – if you are involved in a custody dispute and are at risk of committing a family abduction, speak to someone about your feelings before acting on them, seek help.

Hiding or secreting the whereabouts of a child out of anger, spite, hurt feelings, or whatever adult reason because of complications between the adults is WRONG and will only make matters worse.

It does not make you a bigger person or the “winner” of a dispute to take a child away from their other parent, (absent abuse-assuming the other parent is not a danger to the child, of course.)

It damages the child. Deeply.

Your child did not choose the other parent, you did. and you, the adults, are the ones choosing to end the relationship, not the child.
But unlike a spouse or partner who can divorce and maybe remarry someone else, a child only has one father and one mother.

When a loving parent-child bond is forcibly and suddenly broken by someone else – particularly when that someone else is the other parent or a family member, it’s a fate akin to that of an unexpected death.

If you know someone at risk, dont ignore red flags Please. Do not sit idly by if you see signs of a possible abduction.
Seek help.
Silence and inaction can be as harmful as actually doing wrong or committing or aiding in the abduction yourself.

Please – take the Children home.

FAMILY ABDUCTIONS – PREVENTION AND RESPONSE 2009 Revised Edition in pdf format can new downloaded by clicking this link. This publication is 255 pages in length; the following barely touches what all information is included in the download.

Many child abductions in the United States are committed by a parent or other family member. An estimated 203,900 children were victims of family abduction in the United States in 1999, according to the second National Incidence Studies: Missing, Abducted, Runaway, and Thrownaway Children (NISMART-2), a study published by the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention (OJJDP), U.S. Department of Justice, in 2002.1

Children who are victims of family abduction are uprooted from their homes and deprived of their other parent. Often they are told the other parent no longer loves them or is dead. Too often abducted children live a life of deception, sometimes under a false name, moving frequently and lacking the stability needed for healthy, emotional development.

The term parental kidnapping describes the wrongful removal or retention of a child by a parent.

Because child kidnappings are frequently committed by other family members, the term family abduction more accurately describes such action.

Both terms are used interchangeably and both have civil and criminal meanings.

When a parental kidnapping occurs the government may pursue criminal process against the abductor if a criminal law has been violated.

-Law enforcement and prosecutors are part of the criminal-justice system.

-The left-behind parent may pursue civil remedies to prevent an abduction or recover a wrongfully removed or wrongfully retained child.

-The left-behind parent’s lawyer and the family court are part of the civil-justice system.

It is important to understand both criminal and civil remedies can be pursued when an abduction occurs.

The decision to pursue civil remedies is up to the parent, whereas the prosecutor ultimately has discretion whether to pursue criminal process.

Roles and Responsibilities of Parents/Officials:

A parent is responsible for getting and enforcing a custody determination through the courts.

Typically a parent hires a private attorney to help with the process though parents can appear pro se (without an attorney) in court as well.

A parent may also go to court for measures to prevent abduction or hold an abductor and/or accomplices civilly liable for damages resulting from the abduction.

A parent may also seek assistance from various agencies with civil remedies when his or her child has been abducted.
Such agencies include a missing-child clearinghouse and in an international-abduction case from the Missing Children Division of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children® and the Office of Children’s Issues (OCI) at the U.S. Department of State.

Law enforcement and prosecutors in all levels of government are responsible for investigating and prosecuting parental-kidnapping crimes.

Typically a left-behind parent’s role is to bring the case to the attention of law enforcement whose response will reflect both mandatory duties and discretionary authority.

For example law enforcement has a mandatory federal duty to enter information about each missing-child case into the Federal Bureau of Investigation’s National Crime Information Center-Missing Person File (NCIC-MPF) within two hours of report receipt.2

Whether a parent will be prosecuted for abduction lies within the discretion of prosecutors.

Each parental-kidnapping case is unique, and strategic decisions are made based on the facts of the case and personalities of all involved as to whether criminal process should be used along with civil remedies.

Once law-enforcement authorities and/or prosecutors become involved in a case, they may call upon a parent in connection with the investigation or criminal trial.
A parent may request status reports about the case, but law-enforcement authorities will not release sensitive information that might jeopardize an ongoing investigation. 2
source: The Adam Walsh Child Protection and Safety Act of 2006

Preventing an Abduction

-Go to court and obtain a custody determination specifically defining custody and visitation rights and clearly stating the basis for the court’s jurisdiction and manner in which notice and opportunity to be heard were given to the parties.

-If there is a risk of abduction, ask the court to include prevention measures in the custody order.

Provide the court with evidence establishing a credible risk of abduction in your case, and request prevention measures tailored to your case.

-Abduction risk factors and personality profiles of potential abductors, as well as abduction prevention measures.

-By way of example, abduction risk factors include past abductions or abduction threats, lack of economic or familial ties to a child’s home state, and evidence of abduction planning activities.

-Check laws in your jurisdiction for abduction-prevention statutes.

A few jurisdictions already have such laws and others may soon enact the recently completed Uniform Child Abduction Prevention Act.

In the absence of specific prevention statutes, judges may enter prevention orders to protect children.

Abduction-prevention measures include:
-supervised visitation
-posting a bond
-entering a child’s name in the Passport Issuance Alert Program; and
-surrendering a child’s passport(s) to the court.

*Parents can take precautionary measures to reduce the risk of abduction.

Some examples are to notify your child’s school or daycare of custody orders, flag passport applications for your child, and teach your child to use the telephone to call for help.

What to do if Your Child Is Abducted

-Once you are sure your child has been abducted, immediately call or go to your local law-enforcement agency and file a missing-person report.

-Complete the “Missing-Person Report for an Abducted Child” on page 261 of the Family Abduction guide, and bring it with you when going to your local law-enforcement agency.

-Ask law enforcement to enter information about your child into the FBI’s NCIC.

Federal law requires law enforcement to enter each missing-child case into NCIC within two hours of report receipt.

Law enforcement will decide if the circumstances of a child’s disappearance meet the protocol for activation of an America’s Missing: Broadcast Emergency Response (AMBER) Alert and/or other community notification.

-Report your child missing to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) by calling toll-free at 1-800-THE-LOST® (1-800-843-5678).

Visit NCMEC’s website at

-Verify law enforcement has made the NCIC entry.
If you cannot get this information from your local law-enforcement agency, call NCMEC tollfree at 1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) and ask them to check NCIC to see if your child is listed.

NCMEC can confirm NCIC entries but is not authorized to make them.

If law enforcement does not enter information about your child into NCIC, your missing-child clearinghouse may be able to help by contacting law enforcement about your case.

Contact NCMEC for additional information.

You can also ask your local FBI office to enter information about your child into NCIC.

The Missing Children Act authorizes the FBI to make such entries.

Contact information for the FBI is available in your local telephone book and at

If you suspect your child has been taken out of the country, call NCMEC tollfree at
1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678)
and the U.S. Department of State’s Office of Children’s Issues toll-free at
or by dialing directly at 202-736-9090 for advice about what to do.

-Find out if you have a remedy under the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (Hague Convention).
If you do, consider filing an application under the Hague Convention for your child’s return.

If you do not have a passport, apply for one in the event you have to travel outside of the United States to recover your child.

Visit the U.S. Department of State’s website at, and click on the “Apply for a Passport” link.

-If your child is in the process of being abducted internationally by a family member, contact the Office of Children’s Issues without delay toll-free at
1-888-407-4747 or by dialing directly at

*Also call NCMEC tollfree at
1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) and report the abduction to your local FBI office.

Ask to speak to the FBI’s Crimes Against Children Coordinator.

The FBI has jurisdiction to investigate violations of the federal International Parental Kidnapping Crime Act (IPKCA).

-If an international abduction is in progress, urge law enforcement to immediately contact the U.S. National Central Bureau (USNCB)-INTERPOL for help in intercepting the abductor.

USNCB-INTERPOL does not respond to requests directly from parents.

Law-enforcement agencies may contact USNCB-INTERPOL directly or through the INTERPOL State Liaison Office.

Law-enforcement agencies in the United States may contact USNCB-INTERPOL directly through Nlets, The International Justice and Public Safety Network, at DCINTER00.

-Parents concerned about an abduction-in-progress should also immediately contact NCMEC; OCI;
transportation carriers the abductor may use such as airlines, train and bus companies;
and local lawenforcement and Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) officials at airports and other transportation facilities the abductor may use.
Put them all on notice of the imminent abduction and request help in preventing your child’s removal from the country.
-Provide a photograph of your child and suspected abductor if available.

Please remember abductors may use remote or distant transportation facilities instead of those closest to the abduction site.
Contact your missing-child clearinghouse and any local nonprofit, missingchildren organization (NPO) for whatever assistance they may provide.

Referrals to other NPOs are available from the Association of Missing and Exploited Childrens Organizations Inc. (AMECO) by calling toll-free at
1-877-263-2620, dialing directly at 703-838-8379, or visiting

-If you do not already have a custody order, immediately get one. Consider hiring a lawyer to help you.
A temporary custody order is usually enough to get help from law-enforcement authorities at least until your child is located.

-You do not need a custody order to file a missing-person report or have your child’s description entered into NCIC.

A court can issue a custody order even if your child has been abducted from your jurisdiction or outside of the country and you were never legally married to the abductor.

If the abductor’s whereabouts are unknown, making it impossible for you to serve him or her personally with notice of the lawsuit, you are allowed to give notice by publication.

*The sooner you act the more likely it is you can prevent the abductor from getting a valid custody determination from another jurisdiction or country.
This in turn will make it easier for you to enforce your custody order and recover your child.

-If you already have a custody order get additional copies from the court.
It is helpful to have at least one, but preferably two or three, certified copies available to show or give to law-enforcement and other agencies.

-Consider asking law enforcement or the prosecutor to file criminal charges against the abductor.
Weigh the pros and cons of such action.

You must be prepared to press charges after your child is returned.
(In some international-abduction cases foreign judges applying the Hague Convention will not return a child to the United States if criminal charges are pending in this country against the abductor. )

-If you want to press charges meet personally with the local prosecutor to discuss prosecution.

Be aware that the criminal law in your jurisdiction or the jurisdiction in which your child is located may or may not cover the abductor’s conduct.

-Even if the abductor is criminally charged and government is proceeding against the abductor, you should be prepared to bring a civil action in court to enforce your custody order when the child is located.
If the prosecutor charges the abductor with a felony, law-enforcement authorities should promptly enter the felony warrant into NCIC.

-NCIC files for the child and abductor should be cross-referenced. Ask law enforcement or NCMEC to verify these NCIC entries have been made.

If there is evidence the abductor has fled the state or country to avoid felony prosecution, also ask the prosecutor to apply to the local U.S. Attorney for a federal Unlawful Flight to Avoid Prosecution (UFAP) warrant pursuant to the Fugitive Felon Act.

If a UFAP warrant is issued the FBI can conduct an investigation to find the abductor.

If your child has been abducted from the United States, or such conduct has been attempted, or wrongfully retained in another country, a federal law violation may have occurred.

Consider meeting with the U.S. Attorney to discuss possible charges under the International Parental Kidnapping Crime Act.

As described above, criminal charges against the abductor may interfere with your efforts under the Hague Convention to secure your child’s return.
Discuss this possible pitfall with the federal prosecutor.

-Conduct your own search while law enforcement is conducting its investigation.
If you have questions about a particular search method, including whether it would interfere with the criminal investigation, check with law enforcement before proceeding.

-Contact the crime victims’ assistance office in your jurisdiction, as well as the Office for Victims of Crime (OVC) in the federal government, to find out if any assistance, such as financial, counseling, or otherwise, is available to help you with locating and recovering your child.

OVC can be reached at 202-307-5983 or

After Your Child is Located

-To facilitate enforcement of your custody order, file or register your custody order with the local family court in the jurisdiction where your child is located.

Follow procedures set forth in the law of that jurisdiction.

-If the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act (UCCJA) is in effect, send a certified copy of your custody order to the clerk of the court for filing.

Under the UCCJA, once filed, a sister-jurisdiction order is entitled to be enforced as if it were a local order.
If the jurisdiction in which your child is located has enacted the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), streamlined procedures in that law allow, but do not require, you to register your custody order.
Registration is designed to simplify and expedite enforcement proceedings at a later date.
A registered child-custody order can be enforced as if it were a local custody order.

-Ask local law enforcement authorities to help with the recovery.

The UCCJEA in many jurisdictions authorizes prosecutors, and law enforcement acting on their request, to assist with civil enforcement of custody orders.
This statutory role is discretionary, however, and they may not get involved.
In some jurisdictions law enforcement may assist based on custom and practice or written guidelines.
In many jurisdictions, however, local law enforcement will not help recover an abducted child without a local court order.

-Filing or registering your order, see above, should be sufficient for law enforcement inclined to help.
It may be necessary to petition the court where your child is located to enforce your custody order.
A lawyer can help you do this.

– If notice of an enforcement proceeding, or other court action such as registration, is likely to cause the abductor to flee with or endanger your child, you can ask the court to issue a special pick-up order for your child.

-If your child is located in another country, consider hiring an attorney in that country to help recover your child.
This may entail filing a petition for return under the Hague Convention, if it is in effect, or an action asking the foreign court to enforce your U.S. order or issue its own custody order.

-Send copies of your custody order and any criminal warrants for the abductor to your attorney.

Note: Some Hague Convention countries provide counsel for the applicant-parent.

-Take steps to prevent a repeat abduction.

Consider going back to court after your child is recovered to limit the abductor’s visitation rights and add prevention provisions to your custody decree to reduce the risk of another abduction.

-Consider seeking psychological help for every family member to help with the reunification process.

-Consider filing a child-snatching lawsuit against the abductor and any accomplices.

-Be responsive to prosecutors’ requests as they prepare and present the government’s criminal case against the abductor.

Inform all entities from which you have requested help that your child has been recovered.

This handbook contains step-by-step information for those who have experienced a family abduction or are trying to prevent one.
It was published in cooperation with the American Bar Association. This handbook guides families through the civil and criminal justice systems, explains relevant laws, outlines prevention methods and provides suggestions for aftercare following a family abduction.
In addition the handbook thoroughly details search and recovery strategies and contains valuable information for attorneys, prosecutors and family court judges working on these difficult cases. 244 pp.


These are excerpts from the Family Abduction Prevention and Response 2009 Sixth Edition Revised by Patricia M. Hoff, Esquire
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This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information in regard to the subject matter covered.
The publisher is distributing this publication with the understanding that neither it nor the author is engaged in rendering legal advice or other professional services herein.
If legal advice or other expert assistance is required, professional services should be sought.
This project was supported by Grant No. 2007-MC-CX-K001 awarded by the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention, Office of Justice Programs, U.S. Department of Justice.
Points of view or opinions in this document are those of the author and do not necessarily represent the official position or policies of the U.S. Department of Justice, National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, or American Bar Association. National Center for Missing & Exploited Children®, 1-800-THE-LOST®, and CyberTipline® are registered service marks of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children.

A Reminder From Its Almost Tuesday: this guide has awesome information which Is why I chose to share it.



I cannot express that it is so important to have competent legal counsel!


There are so many words but still never sufficient to describe the devastating damage that is done to the parent/child relationship when a family abduction case is mishandled.

There is usually a co-existing parental alienation syndrome involved especially when the child Is not recovered abd brought home early on. The devastation when a child Is never brought home, as was the case with my child, Is life taking.
The suicide rate is sky high for alienated left behind parents. And there is such difficulty getting the right help needed by those parents.

When cases are not handled properly by law enforcement or the courts the end result is tragic. Truly tragic.
I know.
COLLIN COUNTY did it to me.




Brainwashing? Threats or fear or what? J don’t know.


First I survived losing my beloved 8 year old son, in a most heinous manner. The kidnapping was planned for years, by my own mother. I knew we had issues in our relationship but never will I understand how a mother own mother could have intentionally chosen to betray me to that extent.i am still her flesh and blood daughter, who was cast asids for a pedophile she joined forces with to abduct my child. It was her preferred means to her end goal, rather than attempting to reconcile mine and her differences, she preferred using a known child molester to gain access to the courts, destroying me with a child manipulation of the family court system. She gathered social workers and judges, and members of her church (a well known Texas church Prestonwood Baptist Church to campaign a full on attack against me and my son. She even used the church TO FUND HER attorneys fees and help a CHILD MOLESTER TO PAY ATTORNEYS THAT WERE WELL ACQUAINTED ENOUGH WITH THE LOCAL COURT TO PULL OUT OFF.


TO THEM WE MAY HAVE JUST BEEN A CASE BACK IN 2004 they recall, but to me it’s still a daily fight to survive it.

DO THEY EVER STOP TO THINK THEY ALLOWED TWO ANGRY SPITEFUL PEOPLE TO KIDNAP MY CHILD-my SON, against the custody order of my son’s home state of Florida.

Imagine it being your child.

Then I waited and dreamed of him and grieved for ten years. Ten long desperate years. I am here, only by barely holding on to the tiny bit of hope I found in the belief that when he turned 18 it would end.


I wasnt prepared for this to happen. I imagined we’d run open arms back to being in each other’s lives again.
I was wrong. Oh God how much more can I take?

I held on to that 18th birthdate as the date I had to make it to in order to survive my pain-just to find out there is no end date.
My grief runs even deeper now.
Now, it is combined now with allot of anger, confusion, fears, and hopelessness I never imagined possible.

Everyday I ask myself if I can go on, wondering if we will ever be as close as we were when he was taken at age 8?

Will we ever heal?

I am afraid my son has chosen to reject me because of the painful memories that- I know- must be brought back to life by seeing me again.

There’s no denying just by my physical appearance that losing him took its toll on me.
My 8 year old child had known me as a bright-eyed fun-vivacious -young mother.

I was full of hope for our future.
I laughed. I went out and sang karaoke, danced.

I went to the beach often,tanned,and i had a social circle of other mothers and our bowling league. I had manicured nails freshly done every two weeks.

I know that’s the mother he remembers.

I know, that to see me now, even if only in photos arranged side by side, or especially in life, it’s obvious…

people have described it as “wow, they killed you”- & yes they’re right.

I’ve spent the last 11 years fighting life on every front, and the battles waged against me were not small either.

Ive been left here the shell of a person.

I am an empty woman now.I am the ghost of the mother I once was.

I have scars inside and out, covering my body, from hard living on the streets,and from deadly infections that left me disfigured for almost a year when my stress level took me down.

I was covered with hives that led to MRSA covering my face leaving scars.

I’ve been incarcerated, in fights, beaten, raped, my face sliced, my wrists sliced, my body burned, leaving scars.

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Man accused of inappropriately touching girl at McKinney McDonald’s
McKinney police are asking for the public’s help in identifying this man,
who they believe inappropriately touched a juvenile at McDonald’s last month.

Police ask for help finding suspect

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UPDATE, 4:45 p.m. Friday:

The man has been located, she said, but no arrest had been made as of late-afternoon Friday.

If arrested, the man could be charged with indecency with a child.

Original, 11:15 a.m. Friday:

Police are looking for a man they believe inappropriately touched a girl at McDonald’s last month.

The victim told police an elderly man touched her breast and buttocks over her clothing the afternoon of Feb. 15 at the McDonald’s at 402 N. Central Expressway in McKinney. Security cameras showed the suspect speaking to a woman wearing a red shirt at the restaurant.

The suspect is a white male in his late 60s or early 70s, weighs between 215 and 235 pounds and has brownish-grey hair. He was last seen wearing a dark hooded jacket with light-colored lining, dark pants and dark shoes. Police believe he was driving a dark-colored, four-door sedan.

Anyone with information regarding this incident or who can identify the suspect should contact Sgt. Damian Guerrero at 972-547-2711 or [email protected].

PARENTS BEWARE: Razor Blades Found In Two States on Public Playgrounds

razor blades at playground in illinois

Just over a week after a two-year-old was injured by razor blades affixed to playground equipment in East Moline, police said razor blades were found at a park near Philadelphia.

WTVD reported that on Tuesday evening, April 1, 2014 maintenance personnel found razor blades duct-taped to playground equipment at Eaton Park in Brookhaven, Pennsylvania. They were found before any children were harmed.

After the discovery, other nearby parks were checked and cleared. Officers will continue to keep an eye on area playgrounds.

On Monday, March 25 a two-year-old boy sliced his finger on a razor blade glued to the monkey bars at Millennium Park in East Moline.

Related: Parents of toddler cut by razor blades in park say culprit “sick” and “psychotic”

A warning was issued to Brookhaven residents in the area to be cautious of where kids in the community play.

“Parents are being warned to check the equipment due to the fact that some thoughtless criminal had duct taped some razor blades to the equipment that could have caused injury to children playing in the area,” said a spokesperson with the Brookhaven Fire Station.

“Please warn your older unescorted children as well.”

Anyone with information about the East Moline incident is asked to contact Capt. Reynolds at (309) 752-1552 or Crime Stoppers of the Quad Cities at (309) 762-9500.

Last week, images of a toddler’s hands sliced up by razor blades that were glued to playground equipment in Illinois went viral. Now, a similar incident has been reported at a park outside of Philadelphia.

Police are looking for the person responsible for duct-taping razor blades to playground equipment in Brookhaven Borough, Delaware County on Tuesday, according to multiple Philadelphia news outlets. No one was injured in the most recent incident but police are advising parents to check playground equipment before letting their children play.

Police checked the parks in the area surrounding Eaton Park where the incident was reported and nothing else was found.

“I understand it’s April Fool’s Day but this is not a joke. It’s not funny,”

Bob Kilman, a nearby resident told CBS3.

The incident was nearly identical to the one reported in Illinois last week when police in East Moline said they found about a dozen razor blades glued to playground equipment at a local park.

Photos of the razor blades and a 2-year-old’s bloody, cut hand went viral on Facebook and made national headlines.

Former employee pleads guilty to embezzling Plano ISD funds

Posted: Tuesday, April 1, 2014 1:25 pm | Updated: 12:06 pm, Wed Apr 2, 2014.

Financial scheme press conference

U.S. Attorney Malcolm Bales, left, speaks during a press conference detailing a financial fraud case involving Plano ISD.
Also pictured are Diego Rodriguez, special agent in charge of the FBI Dallas Field Office; and Plano Police Chief Greg Rushin.

A former Plano ISD employee with a penchant for high-stakes gambling has pleaded guilty to federal charges of embezzling at least $2.5 million from the district.

Kris Wilson Gentz, 59, could receive up to 60 months in prison for his role in a financial fraud scheme that lasted from about 2004 through December 2013, U.S. Attorney Malcolm Bales announced Tuesday. Gentz’s employment with Plano ISD, which began in August 2001, was terminated in December.

Plano ISD security officials discovered the crime in November and alerted the Plano Police Department, who in turn brought in agents from the FBI and the U.S. Department of Education after the magnitude of the financial loss was discovered. Plano PD Chief Greg Rushin said Plano ISD cooperated fully throughout his department’s investigation.

Malcolm Bales, U.S. Attorney for the Eastern District of Texas:

Mr. Gentz’s job was to make sure the Plano ISD buildings and campuses were properly equipped with fire and security alarms that were correctly maintained.

Gentz, the manager for security and fire systems in Plano ISD, was a part owner of two shell companies that were on the list of approved Plano ISD vendors, Bales said. These companies would bid on district services, bids that were approved by Gentz in his management role. The companies submitted false invoices for work that was never completed, while Gentz and at least two co-conspirators, one of which is since deceased, pocketed the payments made by the district.

“The charged scheme was not particularly complicated,” Bales said. “Mr. Gentz’s job was to make sure the Plano ISD buildings and campuses were properly equipped with fire and security alarms that were correctly maintained. He was given complete authority to accomplish this job, and as a former Frisco police officer, he was trusted not to abuse this authority.”

Bales said the total amount of money stolen is not available yet because of the length the scheme was carried out, but added the total amount should be less than $7 million and that Gentz is cooperating with authorities.

“The agents and prosecutors are working hard to do financial traces [on the money], but the sobering truth is that the defendant, Mr. Gentz, has probably gambled away much of the stolen money at nearby casinos,” Bales said, adding Gentz spent nearly every weekend at casinos in Shreveport and was what casinos would consider a high roller, or “whale.”

Restitution will be ordered in the case, Bales said, but with much of the money likely lost at casinos and therefore no longer in Gentz’s possession, it is unknown how much of it will be recovered.

“The casinos had no idea that Mr. Gentz was anything more than a well-paying customer,” Bales said. “In fact, they cultivated his business because he was such a spectacular loser at the games.”

The investigation is ongoing, but there is no evidence that any other Plano ISD employees were involved in Gentz’s crimes or that any campuses or students were placed in danger because of the fraudulent billing scheme, Bales said.

While the crimes occurred for nearly a decade, Bales said it is not hard to see how they went undiscovered for so long.

“We are trying to find out [how it occurred] and if anyone else was involved,” he said. “When you give folks authority, you need to check that authority … In this case he was given discretion that he obviously abused. The idea that he could select the vendor and then approve the invoice turned out to be a bad idea.”

Following the announcement of the guilty plea, Plano ISD Superintendent Richard Matkin issued a statement saying the district is working to prevent similar crimes from occurring in the future.

“In light of this criminal activity, we are reviewing all purchasing protocols and have noted the findings of the investigation,” he said. “Despite this distraction, our students and teachers remain at the heart of our daily endeavors as we keep our focus on instruction. Our school district must be ever watchful for criminally minded individuals.”

No sentencing date has been set for Gentz, who has not been taken into custody and is not considered a flight risk. The one living co-conspirator, who has not been named, has also yet to be arrested.

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Texas Woman Heading to Prison For Abusing 3 Year Old Son

Story posted 2013.12.29 at 09:41 AM CST SAN ANTONIO (AP) —

A San Antonio woman is headed to federal prison for 28 years after pleading guilty to recording herself having sex with her 3-year-old son and sending the video to a former boyfriend.

Kimberly Epperson’s sentence Friday came after the 25-year-old agreed to a plea deal that set her punishment between 15 and 30 years for one count of production of child pornography.

Chief U.S. District Judge Fred Biery told Epperson she’d made a “sacrificial lamb” of her son who would have a lifetime of his own to remember the abuses. Prosecutors say Epperson and ex-boyfriend Wade Perkins had “used” the boy multiple times over weeks.

Perkins was sentenced in October to 30 years.

The San Antonio Express-News reports Epperson’s attorney said she’d been manipulated by Perkins.

Story posted 2013.12.29 at 09:41 AM CST